Stronger Together, Happier Within

Are you looking to strengthen your relationship or navigate a significant transition together? I specialize in couples relationship work, supporting partners who want to move beyond painful patterns and create deeper understanding, trust, and emotional connection. I also work with individuals who wish to improve their relationships or prepare for healthier partnerships.

With over 30 years of experience in relationship therapy, I bring a non-judgmental, thoughtful, and practical approach to complex relationship concerns, including communication breakdowns, anxiety and stress, infidelity, separation and divorce, boundary challenges, trauma, and life transitions. My work is designed to reduce emotional reactivity, clarify dynamics, and support meaningful, lasting change—whether you are working as a couple or individually.

A central focus of my work is helping clients understand how past relationships and early family experiences influence current patterns. This insight creates space for new choices, healthier interactions, and more intentional connection. Clients often describe my style as calm, attentive, and deeply supportive, while also focused on results.

I offer secure online appointments, providing both flexibility and privacy. My intention is to create a therapeutic experience that feels professional, supportive, and tailored to your needs. I welcome your questions and provide practical tools you can use beyond our sessions.

To learn more about my approach, please visit barbaramassey.com, where you’ll find blogs, YouTube content, and additional resources. We begin with an initial conversation to discuss your goals, along with practical considerations such as scheduling and fees, so you can move forward feeling informed, confident, and ready to invest in your relationship and personal growth.

Potential Clients

To save you time here is some information you need.

• I use Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS(, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and others in my work.
• I offer online therapy throughout Oregon. At times I have in person therapy appointments available.
• I am a provider for Jackson Care Connect. I am not a provider for OHP.
• For a return response please text or email. I do not return phone calls.
• For the initial contact please leave your name, private payment or name of insurance plan if you'd like to use it and any scheduling limitations.  

Affair Recovery Program

An affair recovery program includes custom counseling and learning materials. Contact me at 541-326-1696 or by email at bmasseyj@proton.me

 Intensive Counseling Program

Learning new skills through actual practice is key to making changes in relationships and dealing with the anxiety that comes up.  I can help you sort through your emotions and thoughts within a compassionate environment for change. You may need an up-to-date, marriage counselor or couples counselor. Contact me by text at 541-326-1696 or by email at bmasseyj@proton.me. For your confidentiality use the minimum amount of information.

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Read Fees and First Steps Range of Options to learn how I might help you. When you contact me, I will talk with you personally to determine what your issues are, how to structure the first session so that you can start moving forward to create a loving marriage, deeper couples relationship and/or less anxiety.

P.S. Payment made paid privatedly gives you more control over your health informaiton. However many insurance plans cover counseling when individuals are anxious, depressed or experienced trauma, often the case when someone is having relationship issues. I am a provider for Pacific Source, Moda, Jackson Care Connect and Blue Cross/Blue Shield. Insurance verification is provided once you set an appointment and you pay until the verification is done and you come to an appointment. Couples work focused on communication and conflict requires out-of-pocket payment. 

Barbara Massey serves individual men, women and couples throughout the Rogue Valley and Oregon. Her Online and Intensive counseling is for individuals and couples within Oregon. 

Barbara Massey MA Licensed Marriage and Family Counselor provides individual counseling and couples counseling or a variety of types of anxiety and relationship issues since 1994.  Couples/Marriage counseling, Relationship therapy for Individuals, and other love issues are a special interest. Premarital counseling, help with divorce, faith-based counseling, Christian marriage counseling, and healing infidelity are other areas she addresses. Barbara can be contacted by text at 541-326-1696 or by email at bmasseyj@proton.me